From the outgoing to the introverted, here’s how to network like royalty this season — without losing your cool or your crown.
At any holiday mixer, the most magnetic woman in the room isn’t the loudest one — it’s the linker. The one who remembers names, connects people, and makes everyone feel like they’ve been personally invited to her court.
Whether you’re the belle of the ballroom or the one adjusting your napkin three times before approaching anyone (we see you, queen), this is your cheat sheet for introducing people — and yourself — with polish, warmth, and a touch of wit.
1. Say the Name — Three Times Minimum
Your memory is like champagne bubbles: effervescent, fleeting, and better with repetition.
Say each person’s name three times in your intro — once when you greet them, once as you introduce them, and once again before you part.
“Jessica, meet Amanda — Amanda’s the event branding genius I told you about. Amanda, Jessica just launched her own PR firm.”
Now you’ve reinforced the names and the connection. They’ll remember you for making it feel effortless.
2. Shine the Spotlight Before You Pass It
Great hosts don’t hoard the spotlight — they reflect it.
When introducing two people, always share a flattering or impressive fact about each.
“Lauren runs the best event team in Dallas — she’s why every gala has great lighting and great champagne.”
It’s public praise disguised as good manners — and it makes everyone instantly more confident.
3. For the Shy Queens in the Room
If starting a conversation feels like walking into Versailles without an invitation, start small.
Use the “compliment + question” combo.
“I love your jacket — where did you find it?” or “Your intro was fantastic — do you do a lot of speaking?”
Find a co-host.
If there’s someone you know, stick near them early on and ask to be introduced to one or two new people. That tiny “in” builds momentum — and your confidence will follow.
Or be the curious listener.
Introverts are the world’s best conversationalists when they realize this: you don’t have to talk much to make people feel heard.
Smile. Ask simple follow-ups. People love talking to good listeners — they’ll remember you for your presence, not your pitch.
Quiet confidence is still power — it just whispers instead of waves.
4. Let Them Talk, Then Lift Them Higher
When someone finishes introducing themselves, don’t just nod — amplify them.
“That’s incredible — you two will love each other’s approach to storytelling.”
This not only makes others feel valued, it signals emotional intelligence — a quality that stands out in any crowd.
5. Follow Up Like a Royal Correspondent
After the event, send a short thank-you DM or note.
“Loved meeting you at the soirée — still smiling about our chat on branding and holiday cookies. Let’s stay in touch.”
And for a bonus PR move? Tag them in a post-event photo or story — with a little public praise.
“So great connecting with @SarahBranding — the queen of client storytelling.”
You’ve just sealed your introduction in gold wax.
Final Toast
Whether you glide into the room or tiptoe through the door, remember this:
Networking isn’t about performing — it’s about connecting.
And connection isn’t about having the loudest voice — it’s about having the warmest presence.
So go ahead, queen. Say their name. Make the intro.
And let the whole room eat cake.
